[Peaches-n-Cream]

Originally Posted by ZTAMich

I just got engaged Saturday. While I def. feel I had pushed a bit to have the "where is this going" conversation I certainly stayed away from ultimatums, which I believe are HORRIBLE, and was just happy to know we were on the same page together. I was pretty content to let the relationship go forward and let him decide himself when to propose.

CONGRATULATIONS!

I agree that the "where is this going" conversation is different from an ultimatum which can backfire badly.