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A lot of people are going to be tempted to say, well if she doesn't understand then why does she call you her best friend? But personally, I think thats unfair. It is hard watching someone you know and love spend less and less time with you even though you love them the same! Basically none of the friends i have known since high school are greek, only 2 guys from home are here, so trust me when I say I know what youre going through. You have scheduled events with your sorority and I'm sure she feels left out - why don't the two of you sit down and schedule your own stuff together - like go out to dinner one night, rent a bunch of your favorite movies for a mini movie marathon for the two of you, go shopping, make sure you keep her up to date on all your "you" gossip - treat her like you would treat your sisters, beucase in my opinion, my best friends are my family. Maybe you should sit down and have a talk with her - remind her that no matter what, she will always be your best friend - and nothing is going to change that. Does she have any desire to go greek? maybe you can bring her with when you hang out with your sisters? Good luck with this hun!
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