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This also sounds like a Save the Date to me. Unless you are positive they said "we'll send you an invite if you're interested" I wouldn't jump on the tacky bandwagon. These are very much the norm nowadays especially with a destination wedding.
Since my wedding was in my town, but a "destination" to many of the guests, I included a little card with their Christmas card that had a website with travel info. I also sent an invite to all those guests.
However, my parents wanted me to invite some people we were positive were NOT coming. I said I did not want to do that because I didn't want them to think they needed to give us a gift. If this couple did put something like "let us know if you need an invite", perhaps they were actually looking out for their guests so people wouldn't feel the need to send a gift if they were not attending the wedding.
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