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Heya-
I went through formal rush 2x(as a frosh then as a junior) and COB 1x at my school- Large greek system. During Formal Rush, I got cut very heavily every time...
Sometimes you're gonna get cut very heavily and its not your fault or any of the houses faults. You just gotta chalk it up and realize sometimes in life things happen for a reason you may not understand at the time. There really is no 'right' set of things TO say (even though there are quite a bit of 'wrong' or touchy subjects to avoid)
So, you could either try rushing next year once you find your place at your school, or you might realize maybe greek life may not be what you want to do. In any case, use it as an experience to learn about yourself and who you are...
I eventually did join my house- at the time it didn't feel like the 'right' house for me. But what you learn is no matter what house you join, the best thing you will take away from the experience is a few great new friends and having learned about yourself. In that case, with a positive outcome, it IS the right thing for you to have done...
feel free to message me if you wanna talk!
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