Ya know, weddings, funerals and family reunions bring out the fool in folx!
We had a destination wedding too but I would have never done anything so tacky as the "let us know if you are coming and we will send a real invite"  
Why oh why do stores give you cards to put in your wedding invites to let folx know where you are registered!  HOW Tacky!  better yet, why are folx dumb enough to put them in the invites.  It looks like you are trolling for gifts!
Tell your most gossipy friend and/or relative where you are registered...it will get around!
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					Originally Posted by AKA_Monet
					
				 
				 
No matter what you do, somebody will ACK a fool 'cuz folks are getting married... 
 
However, I do think it tacky to include a gift registry card in a "save the date" kind of thing for a wedding...  Sounds like a "shotgun" wedding to me... 
			
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