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Originally Posted by lovebug32
I'm just worried because last year my friend pleged a sorority and she said she felt very pressured by her sisters up to the point that she broke up with her boyfiend because of it. I don't want to accidently choose a sorority that will do that to me. Since I'm basing my choice on the general feeling I get from a sorority (cause there are issues we can't/shouldn't discuss) I'm worried about choosing the wrong one.
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Maybe it was because her boyfriend was a great big doody head who treated her like crap and the sisters were only trying to help her do what was best for her. Needless to say, she might not have seen it that way.
I'm sure my ex would say that I broke up with him because of my sorority. That is and isn't true. I broke up with him because I realized that being single was fine when I had lots of sisters (and other friends) who supported me. It was a nice change from the mindset I'd grown up with that taught me I wasn't worth anything without a man.
You probably will change when you join a sorority, but if you join the right one, it will be a change for the better, not for the worse.