So, when I was single, I had varied "interests", shall I say...
The problem with that is when you needed these fools on the days that counted, like birthdays, holidays, etc. they were nowhere to be found... Like ghosts...
So, if you can slang some men on the sly without getting caught, then hey have fun!!! But buyer beware with that choice in lifestyle... It's called the "jet set crew"...
Also, if you do get caught, the guys get soooooooo jealous like you would have never seen... I mean, it is liable to get you beaten down if you play some men like that and quite dangerous. But hayle, he's probably cheating on you too, he's got girls on the sly side so why shouldn't you?
Now if you become serious, that's when it all has to stop. But that's after he initiates that conversation with you--not the other way around. 'Cuz if the girl starts that kind of conversation, it usually has some guys running for the hills... Then where are you?