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Originally Posted by tld221
most of my friends are in relationships ranging from a few weeks to 7 years. ALL of them are facing some drama with their BF/GF, whether its suspected cheating, questionable sexuality, canceled dates, unreturned phone calls, drama with an ex, etc.
i, being the resident single gal, wonders, why stay in a relationship if the person is stressing you? if they get on your nerves, do things that piss you off, and sometimes doubt being with them, why not just break up?
the only answers i can think of is the stereotypical, "well cause i lovvvvvvvvveeeee him" or "because he makes me happy" or whatever.
well clearly they dont if all you can do is b!tch and moan about them. why bother? i find that most people wait til the ultimate last straw to end things - why wait til then?
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I'm in the same boat as you. I'm the resident single gal in my group of friends. One of my friends, who graduated last year, is now engaged to a guy that she has been dating since junior year of high school. They fought all the time, and then last year, he cheated on her, and she still took him back. She kept telling me that she felt like she'd never be able to trust him again, but she still loved him, she was afraid to be single again, and she had already invested almost six years into the relationship and was reluctant to walk away with nothing to show for it.