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Originally Posted by SKEEphistAKAte
Yes I could and would "blame her".
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I feel you, and you have the right to be mad.
I am noting that their situation may be different because they may have never had that type of relationship with their birth mother and Justine may be the only REAL mom that they have ever known. I know people who were in similar situations that have adapted to calling the stepmom, foster mom, aunt, whomever "Mom," and still refer to their birth mother as "Mom." Birth mom can be as pissed as she wants to be, but if she didn't do what needed to be done at the times when it REALLY mattered, she needs to get over it.