HBADPi, I love that idea - it sounds beautiful! Our Chapter's President's Pin was given to us by the estate of our local founder, and is lovely. Maybe they could do something simular. Although, it would be nice to have a universal word for the ceremony, like Candle Pass.
The lights of which I was speaking are
here, but more expensive than I had bought. They look like this:
(The yellow looks the most natural, but they all have the little switch.)
PS - She was a client of ours during her final illness - what a card! Miss Heatherington was a teacher when that meant you didn't marry, and you best know how to be respected! I'll treasure those moments forever.