damn, i feel bad as i now think "where the hell i've been?" as i read this thread.
im so sorry about what happened carolyn. but over the summer when i was getting over my own breakup you were one of the people that sat down,t alked and gave me advice--we even had our own thread going on--...remember how strong and encouraging you were back then? im sure you will be able get through this, no matter how hard, because you possess the best advice giving i've ever experienced... im sure you remember what you told me.
as far as drastic breakup measures go, i also cut my long hair to chin length, and i actually stopped eating. not coz i wanted to, but i really really couldnt find the appetite,e verytime i chewed im so tempted to throw it back up coz i didnt have desire to eat... it was so pathetic...
good luck carolyn, and remember im here if u need anything.
luv,
Cami