[sdsuchelle]

It seems like word of secrets (especially handshakes) gets around pretty easily. I personally know the handshakes of two other Panhellenic sororities -- a couple of my friends in fraternities showed me (without me asking, unfortunately). And yes, I know they're real, because I could tell by the girls' faces when the fraternity guy did it to them. I'm sure girls know the ADPi one too. However, I don't go around bragging that I know XYZ's secrets.. I know how important ritual is and I have more respect for them than that.

Anyway, I don't think it's a huge deal, because even if you do know the secrets, you can never know the bond that the initiated members have.