
06-19-2006, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted by preciousjeni
I stayed with an abusive boyfriend because of #2. I had to have him arrested and then I snuck away to where he couldn't find me. The first time he hit me, I hit him back. We used to fight hard. But, as time went by, he got too rough and he was too strong for me. I shouldn't have stayed (#3 kept me coming back plus I had a little of #4 because I knew I was hitting him back).
When I finally got away, I thought I was pathetic for not standing up to him, but then again he had threatened my friends and family and had pulled guns and knives on me. I was kinda at a loss for a while until I got the nerve to go to the police and explain what was happening.
It's not easy to get out once it starts. You REALLY have to leave at the first sign of trouble...not try to be tough.
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I'm sorry that you had it happen to you *hug*
I'm glad you were able to get away from him,and that you had the nerve to do it.
*hug*
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