My weird social/love life issues? Lets think about that one:
1) I broke up with the guy I was dating at the end of the first week of November. After an unfortunate little fight in a bar on my birthday, we didnt talk for two weeks. This isnt to say I didnt try. I left two "hi, how are you?" messages on his machine; that is my limit, after that it is up to the other person. I had given up and gotten over him when, the night before I went home for Thanksgiving, he called and invited me over to his fraternity house for some pumpkin pie (they'd had a Thanksgiving dinner for the boys they are rushing). He calls me twice over Thanksgiving and the night I come back he calls me while I was at a bar and tells me to call him when I get back because he wants to talk to me. He tells me that he really likes me, but he can't devote the time to be my boyfriend, but he wants to be with me... my question here is who in the f--- does he think he is to think that he can put me in that sort of a situation? (I just dont do the random hookup on a regular basis minus committment thing and to have him suggest this... its totally unfair, plus why should I let him play with my head like that?)
2) Now, guy #2 - from another house on campus (and a stronger one with cooler guys in it) had been trying to get me to go out with him since the beginning of school. I went out to dinner with him last week. I FLIPPED out before he picked me up because I didn't want to go, but I had the best time!!! He's taking me to his fraternity's date party this week and I am soooo excited (especially because it is my first date party!) But the one problem... I don't know that I like this guy as anything more than a friend.
3) Guy #3 and I engaged in some mild hall-cest earlier this year. He is gorgeous although dorky, but dorky in a little lost puppy-dog way. He is everything I want in a guy... but I don't know that he wants me back.
I guess its just one of those ironic situations where I have two guys falling at my feet... yet I want a third that I cant have
