[Scandia]

There is a difference between saying "I love you" after two dates, and saying "I love you" after 6+ months.

The first one is one of those "too much interest too soon is a sign of a potential abuser" thing. The second one is reasonable.

It's like expecting to be proposed to after a month of dating (assuming that you have known each other a little over a month, as compared to good friends who realized they were in love with each other) and wanting to become exclusive after a month of dating. I don't think that wanting to go steady after a month of dating involving several dates is unreasonable.