I concur with most of the things previously listed.
My husband also needs to have a background similar to mine. I do not want to deal with someone who isn't used to having anything, nor do i want to try to "keep up" with my in-laws and his side of the family. Even though what is meant to last will last, I think that having a comprable past as individuals is a pretty good foundation for a successful future together as as family. Also to Madame korkscru, thanks for your words of wisdom! I'll keep the radar on for a brotha with potential as i continue to enjoy the single life!