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You are absolutely right. Unfortunately in our presently pathetic and overly politically correct society, most people do not grasp the concept of having to work towards something. For a long time the long held American ideal of responsibility has been waning, and this is another example. Despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary, people on this board and around the country still fail to accept the fact that the huge majority of "hazing" isn't making pledges eat disgusting things, harm themselves, betray their beliefs, or taking beatings. The large majority involves overcoming obstacles by working with people you are not comfortable with yet, thus building trust that can last a lifetime. It involves taking responsibility not only for yourself but also those with you, so that your actions effect everyone. Most "hazing" isn't to give the brothers some kicks, it is to allow for the continued strength of the organization. People will point out some guys saying that hazing ruined their lives, but I imagine for every one of those, you could find 10 alumni who say it was fun, productive, and self-esteem building. For those who do go through hazing, don't quit when it gets tough, the outcome isn't people with no self worth, but rather men of character who now have confidence and experience to build upon as they begin college life.
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