I know exactly what Tom is trying to say.....many many people in fraternities around the south do not wear their letters very often, nor do they display them on their cars like many people do. To be honest, I can't tell you why. I am one of those people that is like that. I will wear a date party or function t-shirt to class sometimes, but mostly, I wear polos, button downs or fishing shirts. The only stickers on my Tahoe are a Delta Waterfowl sticker and a Widespread Panic sticker.
I am not ashamed to wear my letters at all.....nor is anyone I know that doesn't flash theirs around on their clothes or cars. For me, I choose not to because I don't really feel the need and I really don't like wearing t-shirts. If you know me on campus and are a friend....then you would know that I am an SAE.