We really dont get enough time to talk to the rushees and really get to know them. So dont feel bad if you dont get asked back, cuz its not you, we just have to go by the lil we get, and sometimes its not much. Also a girl told me this when I went through rush and it was so on and made me feel much more comfortable.... You could be the most sweetest of girls and I could love you to death, but if I dont feel that youll get along well in this house, Im not going to want you back. We wouldnt want you miserable and then have you deactivate. which makes perfect sense. Just keep trying like everyone says and be yourself and you'll be fine. Good Luck