I say if you have the ways, the means, and the HEART....stay active! Have FUN!!! Enjoy the sisterhood...don't sweat the small stuff and cherish the people you are around. If you want to reduce the "workload," don't take an office or just take a small one. Enjoy and milk it! Those were the BEST days of my life! I kick myself for waiting so long to join a sorority, but perhaps that's why I am an involved alumnae....
Overall...live life now...the real world is monotonous. You rarely feel the same silly excitement and the bonds with friends like you do in chapter.
And Amanda....please, don't give me a heart attack!
Your CA doesn't want to talk about "some stuff" if it involves 5th year...LOL!