I think you just have to move, and let whatever they have to say go in one ear and out the other. They're your parents they love you and will eventually get over the fact that you moved away. If they don't they probably have some other problems going on and it's better that you distance yourself.
I haven't lived in Jax since I went to college, and everytime my parents start harping on when am I moving home I just tell them I never had any intention of moving back there once I graduated. I even had to tell my sister that the other day. Now she says I could at least visit, but the family dynamics make me not do that except for about once a year. They can visit me anytime they want - the door is always open...
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