here is a map of woodlands cemetery
http://www.uchs.net/Woodlands/woodlandscemetery.html
as i recall jack e masons grave is located on a plot between 59 and 56 on that map. If not there then in that general vicinity. there is no special markings for his grave in relation to LXA. it is a family tombstone that includes his father, mother, sister and brother if i am not mistaken. if you have difficulty finding the location you can use the cemetery directory when you get there.
as for visiting our the chapter houses drexel and penn both have very impressive ones. At St. Joes we are not allowed to have them but we still keep a general frat house on 63rd and city line avenue. St. joes and the house are technically in philly but located pretty far from downtown. whenever you do visit i can put u in contact with the brothers that live in the house, which you are always welcome to stay in. hope i was helpfull.
yours in ZAX,
Patrick