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Originally posted by christiangirl
I'm not basing their actions on my morals, I'm basing others' judgments on logic. The only (traditional) way to get pregnant is to have sex right? So, if pre-marital sex supposed to be not a big deal, then why is pre-marital pregnancy a big deal? Sex is risky business and contraceptives don't always work--anybody's pill can be ineffective and anybody's condom can tear. That being said, it isn't fair to judge anybody, but if one is going to do so, judge the action and motives of the person, not the result which came about by a stroke of luck, the grace of God, or whatever she believes kept her unfertilized for one more day...It can still happen no matter what you do or where you come from, so since we can't judge chance/destiny/etc. I say leave judgements at the door.
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After reading and seeing all the stuff about HIV infections, whatever one can tell these kids to stop playing with fire and trying to find physical means supplementing their lack self-esteems and perpetuating a vicious cycle would be good...
I just do not know anymore... Folks getting busy, unmarried, regardless... Forget more unwanted children, what about HIV/AIDS? And African American women have the highest rates in the United States. WTF? WTH? There are only few ways folks can get HIV... I just cain't believe that ALL African American women the United States are either IV drug users or that illicit in having sex... Regardless if their "man" is on the down low...