I had a weird experience when it came to getting a Big.
I was sort of spoiled by the sisters. I knew that I was getting a bid before I rushed and I even had some sisters tell me that they wanted me as their little. I was flattered, but I was overwhelmed too, because I didn't know how the process would work, obviously. I didn't want to be put with someone that I would ultimately not get along with, just because they wanted me as their little.
I got to know this one sister a little though. She seemed pretty cool and we were a lot alike. We listened to the same music and we both LOVE Pepe LePew, the skunk. We even looked alike. She never favored me, but just was really cool. I ended up picking her as my Big and when Big-Little revealing came around, I couldn't have been happier than when I saw her standing in front of me.
We have a great relationship, even though she graduated soon after I joined and we don't hang out that much. We still talk as much as we can and I hope that someday when I have a little that we'll have the same great bond that me and my big have.
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