I completely agree with both ZTAngel and 33girl. The bottom line with what everyone is saying is that, maggieaxid, your sisters are going to trust your reasons for not wanting this girl, for reputation AND safety reasons. Go with your instincts, maggie. Your sisters will thank you for it. If you don't think she should be a part of your chapter, no matter what the reason, then give her a no-rec. Simple as that. Good luck and Xi Love.