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Originally posted by gem_star17
thanks for your insightful reply, HC.... i could see a chapter giving a bid to a pnm that only half the chapter liked but if the pnm still made no attempts to fit in after rush then why even give the girl a bid just to make quota? isn't it painfully obvious that she's just after the letters? an "unpopular" PNM and a crappy pledge are two TOTALLY different things.
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Well after rush, and after you've bid her, and she is a crappy pledge you're kind of stuck, unless she does something REALLY heinous.
And sometimes it has nothing to do with having to fill quota, sometimes it has to do with some of the sisters saying "well I know her and she's faboo" and the others not liking her, or another PNM whom no one knows anything about or has gotten enough of a read on her to tell what she'll be like. In other words, better the devil you know.