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Originally posted by Senusret I
I gotta say this....
"Pretty Boy" is definitely not a mindset. I don't care how fresh your haircut is, how crisp your shirts are, or how new your shoes are.
If you you like you were beaten about the face with an ugly bat, being a Kappa won't transform you into a pretty boy. You're just an ugly boy with letters. Or at best, average.
And I'm not picking on the Kappas, there are unattractive people in EVERY organization, including mine. But it irks me to see an organization deem themselves "pretty" and some members just aren't.
It's like AKAs who consider themselves pretty girls...... no, some of you just have high self esteem. Good for you. But there's a difference.
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On topic.....I am a gay man who is very aware of how I give compliments. I find that when I tell a dude "you look nice today!" in a totally non-threatening way, it goes over well. I am generally referring to an outfit, hairstyle, or whatever. And though everyone knows I'm gay, no one assumes I'm hitting on them. I also give back-handed compliments, too, like was said above "It's about time you got a haircut." It's just my personality.
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WOW!! You make some great points. Great feedback. Now I will rephrase my question to the Kappas. How does a line come out with all pretty boys face wise? Not by clothes, shoes, etc. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Apparently the Kappas selecting the new members behold something beautiful/pretty. Just wondering.
I have also seen some mugly Kappas and AKAs. I think it's good to see a mixture. Keeps down the stereotypes.