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I gotta say this....
"Pretty Boy" is definitely not a mindset. I don't care how fresh your haircut is, how crisp your shirts are, or how new your shoes are.
If you look like you were beaten about the face with an ugly bat, being a Kappa won't transform you into a pretty boy. You're just an ugly boy with letters. Or at best, average.
And I'm not picking on the Kappas, there are unattractive people in EVERY organization, including mine. But it irks me to see an organization deem themselves "pretty" and some members just aren't.
It's like AKAs who consider themselves pretty girls...... no, some of you just have high self esteem. Good for you. But there's a difference.
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On topic.....I am a gay man who is very aware of how I give compliments. I find that when I tell a dude "you look nice today!" in a totally non-threatening way, it goes over well. I am generally referring to an outfit, hairstyle, or whatever. And though everyone knows I'm gay, no one assumes I'm hitting on them. I also give back-handed compliments, too, like was said above "It's about time you got a haircut." It's just my personality.
Last edited by Senusret I; 05-29-2006 at 09:34 AM.
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