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Originally posted by kddani
Membership selection is ritualistic and private and not to be discussed. You're delving into that territory. We can't talk about how many sisters are needed to issue a PNM a bid or anything like that.
But theoretically, why should a house take a girl that only 50% of the house when there's another girl for that spot that 99% of the house likes? Why would you want to join a house where only 1/2 the people liked you?
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how is it delving if the question was meant to be in general and not directed at a particular chapter? well, i doubt you'd know what THIS chapter's rituals are anyway. actually, i just asked bc i wanted to make sure i didnt misunderstand what jocelyn (?) said. but MAYBE you're right and MAYBE i shouldn't have asked on a public site. my mistake. i did not know.
why would i want to join where half only likes me? because honestly i could care less what the other half thinks as long as i have my half that does. what are the odds of you chillin with the whole house anyway? and unless you really suck, i doubt the whole sorority would hate you for long.
and why take a girl that only half the sorority likes but not one that 99% likes..well maybe you didnt have to chose either or,maybe you didn't meet quota or one of the girls are "freebies" and you're in the position to take both girls.
or maybe withthe girl that 50%of the sisters liked, maybe the sisters that liked her didnt just like her but felt really strongly about her. I dont know bc im not in a sorority and I dont want to "delve into their territory" or even speculate bc i'll most likely end up wrong, anyway.
im agree that this is a unique situation. i thought it sounded sketchy, AT FIRST ( i don't anymore..I just wanted to hear everyone else's opinion before I decided whether i wanted to rush or not. Yes! I do care what other people think! I'm not narcissistic enough to think I'm always right. I wanted to hear from girls more versed on this issue than I am.