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Originally posted by PerfectVerse06
Apparently, you haven't been looking hard enough because you don't want your stance to be refuted. But I know several examples of members of BGLO's that serve their communities with their respective organizations and DON'T attend 'wild parties'.
If you are willing to compromise the behaviors and activities that make you feel most comfortable for the sake of being a member of a fraternity or sorority, maybe you need to wait before you pursue membership. The orgs don't make it's members, the members make their org.
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Thats great, but you don't have to be on the defensive. I don't know every greek person in the world and I am sure there are a lot that are living for Christ. And if you are one of them then I encourage you to continue to be a great example to others. I was just merely trying to tell the thread why those who have already decided not to join for Christian reasons chose not to join.
But one thing I do have a question about. How is that you can say that "orgs don't make its members the members make its org," when in the state I live in, its an unwritten requirment to "be made" in order to get acceptance among the members of those greek organizations? And if you are not "made" (which I have witnessed on a few occasions) you get out-casted by other greek orgs and even members of your own group.
Its just a question, feel free to correct me if I am wrong.