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Why I would want to keep the ring...
I don't see it as a reminder, I just see it as something I would want. The ring itself can be trashed, but I wouldn't mind putting the stone on a necklace. I guess it depends on how long I had it, and if I was attached to it. The fact that it had sentimental value is all the more reason I'd want to keep it. Failed relationships aren't ALL bad.
I wouldn't look at it as something he gave me, so I'd feel like I owed him something. I don't have that attitude. I feel like I'm entitled to whatever you give me, anyway, shoot, cuz I'm worth more than that rock. I'd look at it as mine, I EARNED IT, because I'm sure I put up with some type of BS somewhere along the way, no matter how small. So, OA, out the window with that mess, lol.
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