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Originally posted by southernbelle
Ladies, ladies, ladies...y'all just don't KNOW! I have attened RUSH twice and been rejected twice. It hurts, especially when you know it was nothing you did. A friend of mine from high school went as well, needless to say this was her first time attending any event of this organizationad we've been here for 3 yrs. I was a faithful attendee. She made it, I didn't. Our friendship is in a very bad situation right now. I don't know what to do. It's not jealousy, but other things. I could use advice, help. I'm not going to give up. This week is this org's week here and I have attended every function. But it did hurt to see those girls come out at their show knowing I should have been there too.
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At the present moment you both are filled with a lot of emotions. If you all were friends before this you will be friends after this. Just give it some time. Also, don't get discouraged. Please know that you cannot compare yourself to anyone who made it. Focus on you, because you are a unique individual who is loved by God. The only thing you will accomplish by comparing yourself to anyone who made it, is drive yourself insane. I know it hurts, but just try to keep a positive attitude and know that if it's meant to be it will be.