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Originally posted by ImSoNUPEY
I thinK it jus depends on maturity level of the individuals. Some men kan handle it some kan't
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I may be reading your post out of context, but it's not so much about maturity as it is about a yearning for affection. We as human beings have a natural desire for affection and for someone of the opposite sex to affirm our worth as a man or woman. To say that some men can handle it and some can't trivializes that very God-given desire. OTOH, if you can't "handle it", keep your opposite sex friends at arms length, and do not invest too much of your soul in your friendship.
Maybe it's just me, but I hate the term "just friends". Every time I see those two words together I read it as "emotional tampon".
But I'm just jaded like that.
