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Originally posted by SummerChild
Can men and women be truly just friends?
I ask b/c I was reading another thread and it struck me that the few guys who are in my friend circle approached me, I declined and *THEN* we later became friends. Are there any genuinely true male-female friendships out there in which there was never a romantic (or potential romantic) aspect to the relationship?
Is it possible? genetically?
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LOL @ genetically. You sound like Harry a la 'When Harry met Sally'.
I think so. Maybe it's because I'm younger or because I've gotten wiser, but I have quite a few male friends who were never interests (neither interested in me nor me them). Is there potential? Yes, but I think we have reached the point where it's a true comradery (sp?). I set them up on dates; they hook with up with friends, etc. No drama--at least not yet.
This, however, is not the case with every guy friend I have--sad to say, but true.
And I'm working on getting it back to a pure platonic relationship. Wish me luck!
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