It was always my understanding that the ring went to the dumpee. If you break up with him, you give the ring back, if he breaks up with you, you keep it. My last fi slept around on me and then left me for my little grandsis (THAT was TRES bad for chapter morale and it really split the chapter...I recommend against it), and since he was the jerk, I kept the ring. I then sold it and bought myself a bracelet at Tiffany's. I told him, however, that I went out to the Station Square Bridge at 3 in the morning and tossed it in the Monongahela River. Heehee.
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