It would have changed my life if I was not a KD. I have met some of the most amazing women and learned so much from them that I cannot say it hasn't changed my life for the better. I feel blessed for the experiences and oppurtunites KD has given me and to say if I was a XYZ and that I would be the same is not respecting what I have received from my membership.
If you joined the best on your campus or the worst, how were they nationally, what type of programming do they have, what type of alumnae activites are avaliable? Just because your chapter was great in college doesn't mean much after.
I posted earlier regarding the "elite" question and I still stand by it, some groups are stronger and that carries into alumnae life as well. It means is is always changing for the better, if there was not a distinction, no one would strive to become better.
So many groups means so many different leadership styles, anything could have been different. I think if you enjoy your Greek life you would have enjoyed it no matter the letter, but any one thing could have changed your path...from the job you work to the city you live; anything could have been different if your affliation was different!
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