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food for thought...
Don't get me wrong I love my organization but I don't let the organization make me. I think some folks put more or invest more into an organization than into their marriage. My marriage comes first and all the things that I love will continue to be a part of my relationship and me. I think if a person (mate) does not allow you to be a part of things that existed prior to him/her they will control you and if you can't be an individual in the relationship that means it has the potential to become violent. *The first sign of an abuser is control and taking you away from the things you were a part of prior to the relationship. *
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