My husband never asked me to choose but makes fun of my commitment to my organization, jokingly. He has had a bad taste in his mouth about Greeks since he dated two women that were in a sorority-but at different times, and each were more committed to their frat brother's than him. Needless to say, he caught them cheating with them. He really does not understand the bond with a frat and a sorority. I love my frat brothers and love to party hop with them but I guess because of his past, he just does not trust the frat connection. I look then as big or little brothers. This was a barrier at first in our relationship but after almost four years of marriage he has grown to understand it a bit more and has faith and trust in me and not the men in the frat.
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