[33girl]

Education level doesn't matter at all. Intelligence does. And you really don't have to be intelligent these days to get a degree...not that that is anything new...for a very long time there have been college students who skated by on either their athletic ability or their family's money.

And better to live with a happy bartender than with a lawyer who hates his job or a doctor who's never at home. This is just such a nonissue to me, but that's probably because I come from a background where people didn't turn up their noses if you had a job where you actually got your hands dirty.

If YOU have a problem with saying "my boyfriend/husband is a bartender" then do him a favor and break up with him, because you'll never be happy and you'll make him miserable as well.