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Although my beau and I are not married, I found this thread to be interesting. He is not affiliated with a greek org, however, he has been very understanding of my sorority time commitments, even those that lasted over a long period of time and really limited our together time. I tried to explain to him ahead of time the amount of time that would be required so I don't know if that helped. And I also don't allow our together time to be taken up so drastically on a regular basis, so I don't know if that helped.
I don't know if he would be less understanding if we were married or more understanding if he was greek. However, he is also really busy with his involvement in his community orgs and professional orgs so he had other things that he could do when I wasn't around. I wonder how much it has to do with a man having a busy life of his own vs. being greek or not? Not sure b/c he has also been understanding of other non-greek stuff, like when I was basically underground for three months studying for the bar exam.
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