Does it really matter? Do you REALLY care? Non-NPHC BGLOs need to keep doing what they need to do in order to accomplish what they need to accomplish.
For clarification's sake, always remember that this is all based on your personal experiences and perception. You haven't been in enough settings where non D9 organizations are widely accepted--enough to the point where the disrespectful people aren't a blip on your radar. You also haven't been in enough settings where the D9 fraternities are the ones doing the majority of the disrespecting, not the sororities. I've been in both kinds of settings--outside of these message boards.
Lastly, it's spelled D-I-V-I-N-E.
After reading RainMan's post--->I said "outside of these message boards" b/c you can't always gauge reality based on message boards--(a) The majority of NPHC posters are women, so it would seem like the women NPHC members are the ones with the majority of the strong opinions on a subject matter, and (b) these boards are a subpopulation of hundreds of thousands of members who may or may not care as much about a topic as they pretend to care when they are typing about it.