What about panhel? Can you hold an office for them? And you can be a PX too!
I know how you feel,

I really wanted to be on exec but am not eligable. I found out a month or so ago & it still hurts. I'm looking on the brighter side of things now and proving to everyone that I'm dedicated to XO by keeping my spirit up and staying involved. I think it would be easy to say "bah,

screw them" and distance yourself. By keeping involved and trooping through it will show everyone A) what they missed out on and B) how you care about more important things such a your house's well being. I know it sucks, but you will be ok
Heidi