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Tell your sorority sister you have a conflict on X Weekend, but that you would really like to be at her wedding. Seeing as she has yet to set a date, she can still keep this consideration in mind.
She may have to plan her wedding for X Weekend, and if that does happen, then we move to Plan B. Telling your boss that you have been invited to a dear friend's wedding and you are requesting time off.
If you can't go to the wedding due to a date conflict, go to her shower.
Choose your battles carefully. A wedding party is not worth your job. And if it is, you need a new job in a different industry! As a professional, you know that most event planning groups do require this level of committment and employees are hugely expendable because so many want to break into the industry. This isn't said to be unkind, but to be realistic. Good luck!
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