[darling1]

Originally posted by CkretCrush8
If you have deep feelings for your significant other and you have expressed it to them in more ways then one and you received no feedback...when is it time to move on?

SCENARIO
I'm currently "dating" someone who I love and care for deeply . In the beginning of our relationship we both decided that we didn't want to rush back into a relationship and that we would date each other exclusively. However, since then I have expressed my feelings to him on more than one occasion but have gotten nothing in return. We used to talk on the phone everyday, walked to class together, talked throughout the day, and did small romantic things. NOW, we barely talk. He doesn't return phone calls or any of that. I refuse to stand idle too long waiting for him to come around when I have given up a lot of opportunities (when i say opportunities...I'm referring to male friends who I used to date and go out with) to be with him. He is the person that I could see myself marrying at some point but the way things are looking today...I just don't know. It is frustrating because opposed to telling me how he feels he won't address the situation.

So my question is...when is it time to move on?

Sisterfriend,

I think you should read what you wrote because the answer is right in those words. When you give of yourself it is difficult to let go. It is time for you to be the stronger of the two and make the choice that needs to be made. Appreciate the time you shared but focus your energy on you and preparing yourself for that man that is ready to appreciate, love and respect you unconditionally. Take care of you.