I'm with G8Ralphaxi (your pseudonyms are a bitch to type) on this one. If you have the disposable income go take some private club/house style dance lessons. Practice for a good ten hours yourself, and you'll be light years ahead of most mortals. And you'll have a new confidence, you'll know you are dancing well because you know how.
IF you don't have the extra money, either you or one of your sisters has to know a good dance major that set you up with soem moves. You'll find that even excellent dancers tend to repeat the same 5-6 moves 90 percent of the time.
I have been fortunate enough that a few girls have offered to teach me for free. One was an MTV dancer . . . Sigh, I have to make that call cause it was a new years resolution from years ago.
A guy I knew took lessons and in a few weeks he was getting job offers at clubs to be a dancer in the crowd to liven things up. It increased his body count among the ladies enormously. He may even remember a few of their names . . .
Guys, Dance lessons, unless you are a natural Lord of the Dance, are a win win for us. We drink less when we dance, and more girls will notice us.
So the challenge for you Zetaluvbunny is whether you will take the first step and contact someone to help you. A few hours of practce and you will be the life of the place
Not that you already are not.