[AKA_Monet]

Rudey,

I am still trying to understand why you are worried about "trashy trailer" monkey wrench hoes down in Souf Centrow when you'd never date that kind of woman in the first place?

I guess I'm a little lost on the concept?



The other issue is why sleep with an a$$wipe luser and have his baby when you know you all ain't gonna be together?

But a young lady explained to me that many times, a fool "entices" a woman with "little self-esteem" at first. Wham bam thank you ma'am, then loves and leaves her... Then 9 months later, a baby comes home... The love between mother and baby is so powerful that mother's instinct automatically turns on and propelling the woman to all that she can do to ensure survival of her offspring, no matter what it takes... Unless she's a drug addict. Then that's another case...

But smart women get pregnant all the time... That's how a lot of my over 30 year old friends got their man to marry them...

And Ktsnake, I do find it rather selfish on behalf of some of these women...

But there are just reams and reams of other peoples situations that go beyond comprehension.

Is marriage obsolete? I don't think so. Is it fashionable? Hayle no. It is very hard work and kids today do not want to take that kinna time to make it work. So it makes it luxury in the end.

I almost nearing my 3 year anniversary... No kids - different story on that one.

But all I can say is that I've learn about myself more than anything else over these past 3 years.