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Take lessons in Latin dancing. The hip and feet movements of merengue and salsa dancing translate very easily to club dancing. Pretty simple to learn, and you look REALLY GREAT doing it. I've been a big Latin music enthusiast for years - I have a lot of South Florida friends who exposed me to it. This type of dancing is very attractive and sexy, but (this is key) doesn't look slutty.
Seriously though, the absolute best thing ever is to just not give a sh*t what anyone thinks. Go out there and shake what God gave ya, and SMILE! Whenever I go out, I make sure to just smile smile smile, almost until my face hurts. I get approached by guys a lot when I act like that - I look like I'm having fun, plus I look friendly - I guess maybe I look unlikely to respond with a cruel rejection.
Here's a trick - if you see a guy that looks appealing, walk past him in the crowd, look him right in the eye for a second or two and smile, then look down. Glance back up as you continue walking and smile again. Continue to walk away. A little while later (maybe 5 - 10 minutes), walk by again and catch his eye briefly again and smile.
It's extremely EXTREMELY rare for a guy to not approach you after this. (if they don't, it's usually because they have a girlfriend or they just play for the other team) You've let him know that you're interested in a non-confrontational, non-slutty way. Plus, you've let him make the first move. So then he's not scared. You look confident and happy and fun.
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