At what point is it "expected" to give SOs parents gifts for the holidays? I've been with my boy for 20 months, but we're pretty close and I've been invited to meet the rest of the (extended) family for the holidays. If I do a gift, it will be a family gift, like a homemade dessert (I love doing that!) or a board game (they love it). I've already been put in the secret santa exchange...so, what to do?