Do not take my words and twist them to your own meaning. That is classless and shows and lack of breeding and education!
Hazing is bad. Rape is bad. Hazing and rape are not the same thing. I wrote this post ONLY to say that rape is something that can be overcome. If you think that being a strong woman is not going to change the rape culture.... I fail to understand your logic. You seem to imply that my forgiveness is making me suffer. My dear, I suffer nothing! You didn't read my post correctly. I am perfectly happy in every aspect of my being. It is my forgiveness that has allowed me to become so happy. If I were to brood over it I would become mad!
Let me reassert something. Nothing about our ritual is hurtful. Nothing. Plain and simple. Our ritual is beautiful and moving. Initiation is one of the happiest moments of my life! I think that this girl's soul was already hurt, from what I do not know. Just as when you hug a bruised person unintentionally making the pain worse, Chi Omega tried to hug this girl...
I am sacrificed to nothing. I will never be sacrificed to anything and I will never accept any idea that implies such! I take the responsibility for my own actions. I made a mistake that night, and I take responsibility for it. However, it was a mistake of ignorance, not of rage or hate or lust. You, my dear, seem prone to making mistakes of hate. My rapists made mistakes of lust and hate.
Why do you hate so much?? Hate is not a natural emotion - it is an emotion of stress and confusion. You need help. I tried to imply this earlier, but you seem unable to get the point. Get therapy!
God does not want you to hate. He doesn't want you to hurt other people. He does not want you to destroy that which makes thousands of people happy. You can kill the disease of hazing without killing the the entire Greek system.
Do you have any secrets? You personally? Do you have anything that you don't want others or simply certain people to know? Of course. I guess that means that you are evil and wicked. I guess that means that your secrets are evil and wicked too.
If you feel the need to take this pointless argument up again, please email me. Don't bother these nice people with it!
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