I attained membership through an undergraduate chapter. An experience that I will forever cherish.
As many have said, if attaining membership into a sorority is your hearts desire and you are unable to achieve that goal during your undergraduate years, it is important to stay positive and keep your eye on the prize. If it is meant to be, it shall be.
One thing I always emphasize, don't do service, maintain excellent academic status and forge friendships with people STRICTLY for the sake of joining a sorority. These are things you should be striving to do on a daily basis with or WITHOUT that organization. If you are ONLY doing those things to attain membership into said sorority, you may want to rethink that decision, you went to college FOR academics, so that should be your focus ANYWAY, service is something you should WANT to do, not something you are doing merely to meet membership requirements, if you are only doing it so Soror Such and Such will notice you and write that letter of Recommendation, you will have a RUDE awakening when that is EXPECTED of you once you attain membership.
All of that to say, make sure your head and heart are in the right place when you begin your journey. If they are, everything will fall into place!
Much success in everyones journey!
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